Why Your Child Keeps Rewatching That Show (and Why It’s Good)

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·December 7, 2024

Summary: Children’s love for repeating shows, books, or activities is more than a quirk—it supports learning and emotional wellbeing. Cognitive science reveals that repetition helps kids detect patterns, a process critical for language and cognitive development.

Familiar activities also provide emotional comfort, reducing stress and boosting a sense of control. These deep interests foster mastery and autonomy, fulfilling key developmental needs. While repetition offers benefits, it’s important to ensure balance with other activities to maintain overall engagement. Embracing repetition can help parents better understand its value for their child’s growth.

Key Facts:

• Pattern Learning: Repetition aids children in identifying patterns, which is crucial for language acquisition and cognitive development.
• Emotional Comfort: Familiar activities buffer stress, providing children with security and a sense of mastery.
• Developmental Balance: While repetition is beneficial, it’s important to ensure it doesn’t overshadow other vital activities.

Source: The Conversation

It’s a familiar feeling for many parents. No matter what you suggest, your pre-schooler just wants to watch that episode of Bluey again, never mind that it’s just finished playing. And at bedtime, it has to be a book you’ve read frequently enough to have developed a repertoire of specific voices for every character.

These deep and repetitive interests in a TV episode, game or topic may be frustrating to parents who just want to watch something different. But this repetition actually has great benefits for children’s learning and wellbeing.

One reason for this is what we can call the “input effect”. This isn’t a new concept in cognitive science.

Searching for patterns

Think of the brain as an organ doing its best to figure out what is normal in our lives – what’s part of a regular pattern and what isn’t. Researchers have discovered a phenomenon known as “statistical learning”. According to this idea, children are very sensitive to the occurrence of regularities and patterns in their lives.

Interestingly, babies are particularly adept at understanding certain types of material, such as the likelihood of certain sounds in the speech we address to them. But they need to be exposed to many examples of this in order to detect regularities.

For instance, in all languages, and English is no exception, the sounds included in words tends to follow certain patterns. In English, for instance, some of the most common combinations of three letters are “the”, “and” or “ing”. It makes sense that children’s brains search for repetition – in this example, it will help them learn language.

So, when young children return to watch the same show, what they are doing, whether they know it or not, is driven by a desire to detect and consolidate the patterns in what they are watching, hearing or reading.

Familiar comfort

As well as supporting learning, repetition also has benefits for children’s emotions, in what we are calling here the “wellbeing effect”.

The main job of childhood is learning, and that means actively seeking out new experiences and stimuli. However, having to process and adapt to new things can be exhausting – even for a toddler with boundless energy.

The world can also be a stranger and more stressful place for children than it is for adults. As an adult, you will have learnt what to expect and how to behave within particular contexts, but children are constantly encountering new situations for the first time.

Well-known stimuli, such as that TV episode they’ve already watched umpteen times, can provide a source of comfort and security that buffers against this stress and uncertainty.

Deep interests in a particular activity can also provide wellbeing benefits through a sense of control and mastery. Children are constantly being challenged and stretched in what they know and understand at nursery, school and elsewhere. This is crucial for learning, but it also presents a threat to their feelings of competence.

Being able to relax into an activity that they feel good at, such as a favoured game, fulfils these competence needs. In addition, being able to opt into an activity that they enjoy lets them have a sense of autonomy and control over their lives, which is otherwise often spent being whisked here and there by parents.

Of course, not all children are equally likely to develop these kinds of repetitive interests. For example, autistic children often show particularly focused interests.

There is huge value to be gained from repetition in terms of learning and wellbeing. So, while you shouldn’t be forcing them to rewatch shows, you also don’t need to be concerned if this is something they’re pursuing themselves.

However, it can become problematic if it affects the child’s ability to engage with other important aspects of their life, such as getting out of the house on time, interacting with others, or doing physical exercise.

Of course, there is no rule of thumb that can be applied to all children in all contexts. As parents, we can only be attentive to the situation and make a decision. But as you queue up Frozen yet again, think about the input and wellbeing effects, and perhaps give yourself a break from worrying that your child should be doing something – anything! – else.

About this neurodevelopment research news

Authors: Javier Aguado-Orea and Diarmuid Verrier
Source: The Conversation
Contact: Javier Aguado-Orea and Diarmuid Verrier – The Conversation
Image: The image is credited to Neuroscience News