The Ancient Roots of Psychotherapy: Redfield Jamison is the author of many books, including The Unquiet Mind, and is a professor of mood disorders and psychiatry at Johns Hopkins School of Medicine. Her new book is Fires in the Dark: Healing the Unquiet Mind. Source: Time magazine

The Ancient Roots of Psychotherapy

In a small valley of the Peloponnese the archaeological site of Epidaurus extends to different levels. The worship of Asclepius began there for the first time in the 6th century BC. but the main monuments, especially the Theater, which is considered as one of the most pure masterpieces of Greek architecture, date back to the 4th century. The wide archaeological site is a tribute to the healing cults of the Greek and Roman ages with temples and hospital buildings devoted to their gods. (Getty Images)

In a small valley of the Peloponnese the archaeological site of Epidaurus extends to different levels. The worship of Asclepius began there for the first time in the 6th century BC. but the main monuments, especially the Theater, which is considered as one of the most pure masterpieces of Greek architecture, date back to the 4th century. The wide archaeological site is a tribute to the healing cults of the Greek and Roman ages with temples and hospital buildings devoted to their gods.

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By Kay Redfield Jamison

May 25, 2023 7:30 AM EDT

Redfield Jamison is the author of many books, including The Unquiet Mind, and is a professor of mood disorders and psychiatry at Johns Hopkins School of Medicine. Her new book is Fires in the Dark: Healing the Unquiet Mind

Our medical ancestors sought to heal the mind long before they could treat diseases of the brain. Magicians and priests tended the sick through suggestion, therapeutic bond, and tincture of time, not by science. This has changed. During the last century and a half, our progress in understanding and treating mental suffering has been remarkable by any standard, drawing importantly upon lessons from the asylum, advances in psychology and the science of the brain, and what had been learned by doctors and nurses who treated shell shock during the First World War.

Psychotherapy has been described as the oldest branch of medicine, with roots in religion and magic that can be seen in the healing rituals practiced in Greek temples, on the Homeric battlefields, and in the consulting room of Freud. In earliest times, as in our own, the priests and doctors of antiquity drew upon potions, listening and words of consolation, suggestive power, and pragmatic counsel.

More than four thousand years ago, Egyptians built sleep temples that served as sanctuaries for worship and for the relief of suffering. Temple priests and doctors induced trancelike states in their supplicants, interpreted their dreams, and advised the most auspicious paths through life. Music, painting, and walking in nature were prescribed to calm the anxious and console the grieving. Egyptian doctors, and after them the Greeks, studied their patients as well as healing them. They detailed the symptoms and course of brain fevers, mania, melancholy, and other mental disorders. Against a background of myth and magic, they laid down rudimentary elements of medical psychology and psychiatry.

Centuries later, similar techniques were practiced by the followers of Asclepius, the Greek god of medicine and healing. They too healed the sick with herbs and words, suggestion, and dream analysis; as they did, they practiced a recognizable form of psychotherapy. Suggestion and place were critical to their work. The Sanctuary of Asclepius at Epidaurus, built in the fourth century B.C., was in every way designed for healing. It was set among the hills and trees, away from the interferences of the world. It defined arcadia. It was beautiful and restful; the air was pure, the diet simple; there were fresh springs in which to bathe, and a theater and library for arts and learning. Pilgrims sailed to Epidaurus from ports across the world to worship Asclepius and to be healed by magic, suggestion, herbs, and the arts. They came to a world perfectly cast for mending minds.

The priests in the Asclepian temples were tutored in suffering and were learned in the prescription of calming or enlivening herbs that had been used for tens of thousands of years. They knew and taught the rituals of remedy: Before starting treatment, supplicants purified themselves. They bathed in healing waters—mineral springs, the river, the sea—meditated in the sanctuary’s sacred grove, fed on a cleansing diet, and prayed. They offered sacrifices to Asclepius and proffered figs and honey cakes to the temple serpents. Hymns were sung, sacred lights were lit. The priests laid on hands and applied ash. Supplicants slept in special areas within the sanctuary where, lulled by suggestion, and perhaps by drugs, they waited for the priest to analyze their dreams and prescribe cures.

Thousands of years later, doctors and nurses who treated shell-shocked patients in World War one confronted terrible psychological suffering and brought to its easing as much as they could usefully glean from both ancient remedy and modern medical knowledge. Many of the war doctors who treated the traumatic damage caused by combat were influenced by recently published writings of Freud, Jung, and other European psychiatrists. Like the doctors of antiquity and the psychoanalysts, some put importance on the analysis of dreams. And like the psychoanalysts, they knew that memory must be grappled with: patients had to discover what was best to remember, what best to forget, and ways to reconstrue traumatic experience.

War, as Henry Adams said about the Civil War, sets the circumstances for advances in medicine and science. In the twentieth century, the hundreds of thousands of soldiers, wounded in body and devastated in mind, commanded not only urgency but improvisation. Science from the battlefield brought rapid change to psychiatry, as well as to general medicine and surgery. British psychiatrist and anthropologist W.H.R. Rivers observed that the Great War produced disturbances of the mind on a scale that could not be imagined. War, he said, was a “vast crucible,” an extreme trial that could rearrange or destroy the mind. Therapeutic pragmatism was imperative. Psychiatrists had to figure ways to help their patients reconstruct their shattered minds and how to reconjure their futures. Doctors needed to infuse hope and nerve and a semblance of calm. The war taught about the unconscious mind in a way that nothing else could. It also taught that psychotherapy saved lives. After the war, psychotherapy became a part of what doctors had to offer patients.

Psychoanalysis and electroconvulsive therapy came into their own in the early twentieth century; in the years following the Second World War, lithium, antidepressant, antipsychotic, and anticonvulsant medications were found to be effective for many individuals with previously untreatable mental illnesses. New treatments continue to be discovered—mood stabilizers and antidepressants for mood disorders, medications for anxiety disorders and schizophrenia, structured psychotherapies, brain stimulation techniques, ketamine, psilocybin, virtual reality therapies, and others—remedies that have helped millions. Less beneficial, however, has been the concurrent decrease in the time given over to psychotherapy. This in part is due to the presumption that medication alone is necessary; to the expense of psychotherapy and relative lack of reimbursibility by insurance companies; and to the time and effort involved.

Certainly, medication and other non‒psychotherapeutic treatments have profoundly changed the lives of those with mental illness. They have ameliorated suffering, made meaningful work possible, and allowed damaged relationships to mend and grow. For many, medication does these things more quickly, better, and less expensively than psychotherapy. Medication often falls short of actually healing the mind, however. Many patients, their suffering improved by medical treatment, remain raw and fragile. They cling close to shore, avoid risk, and fear returning to the fray of life. They do not expand the territory of their beliefs or curiosities, nor do they learn as much as they might from what they have been through. But for those who receive it, psychotherapy is an irreplaceable part of a greater renewal; it marks the channel home. Psychotherapy is an ancient and deeply human part of healing; for cause, it has been called the oldest branch of medicine.

Adapted from Fires in the Dark: Healing the Unquiet Mind

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Jonathan Haidt…a man after my own belief system. He recommends the “ancients” and their quotations. Wisdom is so important. Social psychology is his forte and he has written many books. 2nd video shorter: GenZ starts 1995. Note fragility. Recommends CBT

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Does marijuana cause depression in teenagers? Source: DW

Does marijuana cause depression in teenagers?

Esteban Pardo

05/24/2023May 24, 2023

Increasing evidence is linking cannabis use in teens with depression, but whether one causes the other is still unclear.

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The global attitude towards cannabis has been changing, drifting more towards exploring its potential medicinal uses and legalizing it.

Eight countries, including Canada, Uruguay, Mexico and Thailand, and 22 states in the US have legalized recreational marijuana, and around 50 countries have legalized it for medicinal use. Many other countries are currently pushing their laws in that direction.

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But just like with tobacco and alcohol, legalization doesn’t mean the drug is not harmful.

Marijuana is also one of the most used substances among teenagers around the world. In the US, more 2.5 million teens casually use cannabis, according to researchers from Columbia University in New York, and cannabis usage among youth has increased over the last decades.

That’s why the trend towards legalization and medicinal use has raised alarms, particularly about the potential health risks in adolescents.

A developing brain

Although it can be tricky to tell when adolescence stops, it’s clear that it is a period that comes with many biological changes, including changes in the brain.  

Those changes make it even harder to understand how cannabis can affect teenagers’ minds. 

During adolescence, the brain is in development up to about the mid-20s, according to the US’ National Institute of Mental Health.

During this time, there’s major development and fine-tuning in areas of the brain related to handling emotions, coping with stress, rewards and motivation, decision-making, thinking before acting, controlling impulses and reasoning, just to name a few. There’s also an increase in white matter and a decrease in gray matter during adolescence, which makes different brain regions communicate faster and more efficiently. 

It’s a hard knock, life for teenagers. Not only do their bodies go through drastic changes, but they often struggle with issues like identity, social pressure, getting good grades, family dynamics and many other things.  

All these changes and pressures can make teens more likely to have mental health issues, like anxiety and depression, and they can lead to their using substances like marijuana to cope, according to the US Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. The problem is that using marijuana can also make those mental health conditions worse in the long run. 

Because the brain is developing in this stage, it is also particularly vulnerable to substances like alcohol, tobacco, marijuana and other drugs acting on it. These substances have been shown to change or delay some of the developments usually taking place during adolescence, according to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. 

In the case of cannabis, there’s increasing evidence that it modifies the brain of teenagers. 

The evidence regarding cannabis and depression 

Marijuana usage has been linked to difficulties with thinking and solving problems, memory and learning, and with reduced coordination and concentration, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). It’s still not clear if these problems persist after stopping cannabis use. 

Research has also shown associations between cannabis use and mental health problems like anxiety and depression. It’s also more likely for people that use cannabis to have psychotic episodes. 

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Female cannabis flower buds have the highest content of THC, the major psychoactive component of cannabis.Image: picture alliance/NurPhoto

A study, published in JAMA, the Journal of the American Medical Association, earlier this month, looked into teens who occasionally used cannabis in the last 12 months. The study analyzed the responses of almost 70,000 teenagers to the 2019 National Survey on Drug Use and Health.  

The study found that, compared to non-users, those that did use marijuana but didn’t meet the criteria for addiction reported two to four times more mental health problems like depression, suicidal thoughts, slower thinking and difficulty concentrating.  

This could suggest there’s an association between marijuana use and mental health issues, but it’s still unclear whether one directly causes the other. 

Another recent study published in JAMA Psychiatry found that marijuana use in teens was also associated with an increased risk of developing depression and suicidal thoughts later in life. 

However, a 2022 study published in the Journal of Psychopharmacology showed that teenagers that used cannabis weren’t more likely to develop mental health problems like depression or anxiety compared to adults that used cannabis. Only teenagers with cannabis addiction had worse mental health.

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Is cannabis the cause?

Correlation does not equal causation and as in the case of the chicken and the egg, it’s hard to tell whether the use of cannabis in adolescents is the cause of the higher association with depression and other mental health issues, or whether teens with these issues are more likely to use cannabis.

A 2020 study published in Frontiers of Psychology reviewed the evidence on cannabis and the teenage brain and concluded that because of the way many of the available studies, so-called cross-sectional studies, were designed, we don’t know much about the nature of the relationship between cannabis use and mental health.

Cross-sectional studies look at different groups of people at a specific point in time. The aim is to gather information about a particular topic by collecting data from a diverse group of individuals all at once. Then researchers analyze the data and try to find patterns or relationships, but they cannot establish what causes what.

The Frontiers of Psychology study also stressed that it’s possible that both cannabis use and mental health problems may be caused by something else, like teens’ susceptibility to stress and anxiety mentioned earlier.

To figure out whether cannabis causes mental health issues in teenagers, more research is neede

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Michelle-Canisgallicus: Thanks ChatGPT. Thanks Jordan Peterson for sharing so much about psychology with ordinary people. Traumatic brain injury, aphantasia (see earlier post). Amnesia, memory deficits, language complications (Brocas) see earlier post; caused great distress and anxiety but answers lie in the intellect of scientists and outcomes of their discoveries. I would love to be part of their research…my interaction with daily life especially through computer takes me to a version of HM without anyone to confirm same.

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In the context of the above fascinating discussion…it may be of interest ie my book. When I developed breast cancer, I wrote on a daily basis and published it in the hope that more could be discovered about memory and traumatic brain injury. Cancer … well no memories of same like most of the last 30 years.

It feels like going to the hairdresser with straight mousy hair and they trim it and you are left with an everlasting style of hair that needs highlights to enter you back into society to make very small talk because there is no density in your conversation. However, understanding is not lost but your language skills and memory are alcoholic and embarrassing. Contact michelleclarke@upcmail.ie

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Yet another man “goes down” today for sexual abuse; add those who have accessed child pornography without even caring who or where the children who are forced to satisfy the perverts lurid needs by technology. We are told our children are accessing “raw porn” on the website and this is affecting their intimate relationships. Young people should open their eyes to the writings of Fr Shay Cullen who has written for decades about the horrors of abuse and those who really suffer, yes, the children, often due to the greed of parents or family or even worse the sex industry, facilitated by the camera.

The Children in Conflict with the Adult World Fr. Shay Cullen 20 May 2023

Thousands of Filipino children and millions worldwide are made to suffer injustice, abandonment, being forced to work as slaves, deprived of nutritious food and education. They are trafficked as sex objects for the sexual gratification of lustful abusers, raped and abused by family members and pedophiles, all for the satisfaction of adults. They are then branded as children with “criminal minds”.

Are we surprised that they should run away and live apart on the streets alone or in groups for survival? Should we be surprised if they have no trust in adults and society to love and protect them?

Much as the government and society will not admit it, they are child victims, not criminals. They are victims of violence, bullying, beatings, deprivation and abuse. Should we be surprised if they grow up with anger, pain, and repressed suffering and turn to crime as adults, rejected and stigmatized as teenage criminals? Who formed the so-called “criminal minds”, but the adults responsible for their childhood suffering when they had power over them as children. This we know since we are trying to save and protect them from such abuse before these children are damaged beyond healing and repair.

Since 1974, almost 50 years since the foundation of Preda, about 5000 youth and children in conflict with the law have been healed and found a new life through the therapy and program of life in the Preda open homes. They choose to stay by free choice and are treated with respect, dignity, care, therapy, education and are given understanding and acceptance. They have been healed and empowered.

However, no one in government has had a vision or is interested to help and heal the children in conflict with the law in such a successful program of life. Those with court cases won a dismissal and went on to live successful lives of value. Instead, in most government facilities like Bahay Pag-asa’s, the youth and children are treated as criminals deserving punishment.

For the last 17 years, ever since the passing of the Juvenile Justice and Welfare Act in 2006, which is being acknowledged this month, the Preda Foundation has been actively campaigning for the full implementation of this law. The law was enacted to protect the vulnerable children in conflict with the law as they struggled to survive in a violent, drug-infested society without education, love, protection or reception. After many years of campaigning by the Preda Foundation and other NGOs and media like CNN, Republic Act 9344 was passed into law.

“By prioritizing rehabilitation, diversion, and restorative justice, Republic Act No. 9344 (R.A. 9344) or the Juvenile Justice and Welfare Act (JJWA) recognizes the potential for positive change in young offenders and seeks to transform them into responsible and productive members of society” (PIA).

This law is vital to help children that are surviving and staying alive on the streets or in impoverished families. Everyone has a right to eat even if they have to steal. They were and are still being abused in some municipalities that have jail cells with steel bars without sufficient beds and decent, dignified facilities. They were considered to have “Criminal Minds” .

Mayors should visit these Bahay Pag-asa facilities and decide if they are suitable for their own children. What CNN showed in 2006 is still true today in some places, despite the law that was supposed to change everything. See video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5rxEFBCbW8

Preda Foundation was set up fifty years ago to address this shameful neglect and violation of child rights by the state and campaigned for a law to protect the thousands of abandoned, abused and neglected street children. Only after the lockdown during Covid-19, the campaign to stop the jailing of children 15 below succeeded. However, many older boys are still jailed despite the Juvenile Justice and Welfare Law.

Preda, among others, tried to fully implement the rights of the child so that they are treated with dignity, respect and given full opportunities to recover and be educated. However, local officials in cities and municipalities do not yet fully recognize the value and rights of the children in conflict with the law.

In years past, children as young as 10 were locked behind bars as criminals and mixed with adult criminals as seen in the CNN report above. As senior social worker Emmanuel Drewery and Executive Director of the Preda Foundation writes: “Since then, the wanton arrest and incarceration of minors, even those 15 and below who are not supposed to be arrested and jailed, sadly continues today.

What caused many children to be jailed and killed was the war on drugs campaign pushed by the previous administration, which resulted in many young people being apprehended and jailed as suspects for the use and peddling of illegal drugs. Unfortunately, many young people were executed on the streets without arrest, evidence, or trial. Therefore, shelter protection for the most vulnerable is of greater importance as the youth face the dreaded death squads.

The youth and children are no longer safe on the streets but they have nowhere else to go. The World Organization Against Torture reported that at least 122 children aged from 1 to 17 and as many as 30,000 young and middle-aged adults have been killed by police during operations and vigilante killings are rampant in this so-called war-on-drugs. Therefore, the protection of the youth is the top priority. Street children are especially vulnerable as they are arrested for vagrancy and are branded as criminals.

The government’s youth detention facilities, ironically called “Bahay Pag-asa” or “Houses of Hopes,” offer very little hope for the proper rehabilitation of these minors. Most Bahay Pag-asas still offer detention-like experiences for these boys. They are overflowing with youth inmates and are overcrowded. Many young children are imprisoned in these facilities alongside older youth who bully them.

They are in dire circumstances as most of the jail cells have no beds and some boys would sleep on the floor. The younger children, some as young as 12, are still incarcerated despite the law forbidding it and they suffer physical abuse and even sexual abuse. Bullying is common, and the children there are fed very poorly, sometimes expired or spoiled food is served.

There is still an urgent need for these Bahay Pag-asas to be reformed and offer a proper rehabilitation program and experience that heals, empowers, educates, and respects the rights of children. Thus, Preda continues its advocacy work for the Juvenile Justice and Welfare Law to be properly and fully implemented”.

Where does the life of a street child or a child in conflict with the law begin, we may ask. The answer of course is that it starts in the home. They run away to the street because of poverty, hunger, abuse and neglect. Family breakdown is common and they suffer child abuse in their own families Many children are being saved from the streets and protected by Preda Foundation before they are put in the government jail-like facilities. They are as young as 6 to 15 years of age. They are abandoned on the streets and must get immediate priority before they are seriously harmed and hurt.

The challenge to government is to learn and respect the rights of minors in conflict with the law and reform the Bahay Pag-asas. Can the Philippine government appoint a progressive child rights protector and reformer to implement positive changes in the system of child detention?

The reform must provide a quality recovery and empowerment program where the youth and children are happy to get care and education, be enlightened with moral values, given hope, and a sense of freedom and education. They need an intelligent yet compassionate program of healing, recovery and aftercare.

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Experience: I’ve got the best memory in the world. The Guardian. (Personal memory deficits from amnesia TBI, this is really fascinating. I cannot memorise, these methods are way beyond me now).


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A Ted Talk inspired me to learn the techniques. The first time I used them to recall a 20-item shopping list, I felt superhuman

Alex Mullen

Fri 19 May 2023 10.00 BST

Growing up in Oxford, Mississippi, I never thought I had a good memory. None of my friends or family would have said I did, either.

In 2013, when I was studying biomedical engineering, I stumbled across a Ted Talk by Joshua Foer, the author of Moonwalking with Einstein: The Art and Science of Remembering Everything. He mentioned techniques such as the “memory palace” or the “journey method”. They tell you that if you want to remember things, imagine you’re journeying through a specific physical space, depositing images that represent the information you’re trying to recall.

I applied these techniques to my studies and day-to-day tasks. The first time I used a memory palace to recall a 20-item shopping list, I felt I’d encountered an earth-shattering superhuman ability – although it’s something anyone can do.

Initially, competitions were of no interest, but I tried a few activities that they involve, such as memorising the order of a deck of cards or lists of numbers. I started training in March 2013 and by September I had broken the one-minute mark for memorising and recalling a single deck of cards. The national record was slightly over a minute, so I realised I could compete with the best. In 2014, when I was 22, I entered the USA Memory Championship and came second. That spurred me on.

It’s just about trying to make mental images that are as creative as possible to create a memorable story – it’s fun

Memorising cards has always been my favourite. I break the cards into pairs and assign an image to each pair. To the human brain, images are a lot more memorable than the abstract idea of, say, the six of diamonds.

I use my childhood home as one of my memory palaces, and the first stop is outside the house, at the mailbox. If I was remembering a deck of cards, I could associate the first pair of cards with the image of Michael Jordan slamdunking a basketball into my mailbox. Then the next stop is the driveway. So I’ll associate the second pair with an image of Ian McKellen as Gandalf leading the Fellowship of the Ring up the driveway.

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The images can be random – they don’t always need to be related to the information you’re trying to remember. It’s just about trying to make mental images that are as creative as possible to create a memorable story – they are inevitably ridiculous. It’s fun, which people might not expect, because memory seems like this dry thing. The fastest people in the world can memorise a deck of cards in 15 seconds or under. My personal best in a world championship event is 15.61 seconds.

That said, the world championships are boring to watch. It’s like watching 300 people take a test, with desks all around the room. A lot of people, myself included, use earplugs. Some even have contraptions like horse blinkers to block out other people.

American memorisers used to lag behind the rest of the world, but I was able to take the fight to the Europeans and became world champion for three years between 2015 and 2017. The first time I won, the prize money was about $30,000. It’s not professional sports money, but I was a medical student at the time, and that was a lot.

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I’m semi-retired from those competitions and instead compete in the Memory League. That involves fast events, like memorising a deck of cards as quickly as you can, or 50 words in under a minute. If the Memory World Championship is a marathon, the Memory League is like a sprint. I am this year’s world champion.

In ordinary life, I’m not sure if my memory has changed much. I do almost automatically put the techniques I’ve learned from memory sports into practice, though. When I meet people, it’s hard for me not to turn their name into an image. Katherine, for example, sounds a bit like “cat run”, so I’ll remember a cat running around this person’s face. I’ve never really thought of myself as a creative person, but the nice thing about memory sports is they have opened up that side of me.

 

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Mental illness (Bibliotherapy), acquired brain injury; this sums up the importance of books and reading.

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How to Work with Someone Who Creates Unnecessary Conflict. From Harvard Business Review. Classic “Conflict entrepreneurs”

How to Work with Someone Who Creates Unnecessary Conflict

Several actions you can take to identify these people and mitigate their negative impact.

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Conflict at work comes in many forms. Good conflict, the kind that is healthy, pushes us to be better as people and communities. Most organizations need more good conflict, not less. But sometimes, conflict can become malignant. It hijacks precious time, trust, and energy, turning allies against each other and distorting reality. This is what’s known as “high conflict,” the kind that takes on a life of its own, and eventually, leaves almost everyone worse off.

What causes high conflict? I spent four years investigating this question, following people who were stuck in all kinds of miserable feuds, personal and professional. One pattern, common to every instance I’ve seen, is the presence of conflict entrepreneurs. These are people who inflame conflict for their own ends. Sometimes they do this for profit, but more often for attention or power. They don’t exist in every organization, but, according to my research, they seem to be more common in certain workplaces, such as hospitals, universities, and political or advocacy organizations.

Think about someone you’ve worked with who sends defensive emails that may include ALL CAPS, copying multiple, uninvolved, often more senior colleagues in the cc line. Or maybe they spread rumors and suspicion about the company and its leaders via Slack or even social media. Typically they do this not just once or twice, but again and again.

One obvious response is to distance yourself from the conflict entrepreneurs in your office (or on your Facebook feed). Keep a safe distance from people who use all-or-nothing language or who delight in each new plot twist of a feud.

But what if you can’t distance yourself from a conflict entrepreneur? What if you must work with this person because you’re on a team with them, you manage them, or they’re your boss? In these cases, ignoring the person doesn’t work. They have a way of recruiting others to their cause. They often tell very persuasive, emotional stories about how they’ve been wronged by a co-worker, convincing well-meaning colleagues to start doubting, avoiding, and undermining one another. And soon, the problem metastasizes.

Calling a conflict entrepreneur out is equally unwise. “It will make things worse,” says Bill Eddy, a lawyer and mediator who specializes in dealing with high-conflict people. “It doesn’t motivate change; it escalates conflict.” Firing or otherwise parting ways with the employee could help — or make things even worse.

One seasoned manager at a small tech company encountered a conflict entrepreneur for the first time a few years ago. The problems started in a routine meeting, when the employee began demanding to know why others had been promoted. It was not an inquiry, which would have involved asking questions; it was a prosecution. The person “just came out swinging,” the manager said, “I was blindsided. There was no benefit of the doubt, a lot of black-and-white thinking.”

At first, the manager assumed the employee was just going through a hard time and things would improve. But then the employee began studying shared calendars and demanding to know why certain people were invited to meetings and others weren’t. Then this person spread misinformation to more junior employees about company decisions and recruited others to complain, sometimes in very public ways. The leadership struggled to respond. They hid their calendars. They tried to snuff out rumors. They considered letting the employee go but worried about getting sued if they did. “We don’t have the energy or the desire to work with people who are doing this,” the manager told me. “We’re just exhausted.”

So what then? People who deal with high-conflict personalities all over the world, including attorneys, therapists, and conflict mediators, suggest taking a handful of specific, counterintuitive actions — the opposite of your instincts. And taking them with great care.


Identify conflict entrepreneurs — quickly

First, learn to identify conflict entrepreneurs. Remember that people can criticize, disagree, go to HR, file complaints, lead a union organizing drive, and circulate a petition without being a conflict entrepreneur. The mark of a conflict entrepreneur is more about the way people engage in conflict over time — it’s about a recurring pattern of dysfunction, extreme behavior, and perpetual blame. They’re often quick to accuse, eager to validate every lament and articulate new wrongs that no one else has thought of. They broker in rumors and conspiracy theories, dividing the world cleanly (usually, too cleanly) into good versus evil.

Once you’ve identified a possible conflict entrepreneur, resist the urge to demonize them to others (or even in your own mind); it’s tempting, but that’s the same us-versus-them thinking that causes high conflict. In Well-Intentioned Dragons, a book about managing conflict entrepreneurs in churches, author Marshall Shelley puts it this way: “When attacked by a dragon, do not become one.”

Keep in mind that conflict entrepreneurs may have unresolved trauma in their background, including experiences of neglect, abuse, and violence. Try to cultivate compassion, however hard it may be. Remember that we are all capable of acting like conflict entrepreneurs.

Spend more time with them

“If they’re 90% conflict entrepreneur, speak to the 10%,” says mediator and lawyer Gary Friedman. Listen and try to understand — not forever, but long enough to make a connection. “This person may have lots of opinions I don’t agree with, but first and foremost, people want to be heard, and somewhere in there, there’s an opportunity,” says one turnaround specialist who works with underperforming organizations.

In one volatile case, he brought a leader who was a conflict entrepreneur and his most indignant adversary to an off-site restaurant, in what he called a “Camp David” retreat. He asked them both to identify a few common values to drive future interactions, such as respect. Then they brainstormed behaviors that would demonstrate these values (greeting one another with a kind word) or diminish them (sending emails impugning one other’s motives). Crucially, they also came up with a protocol for what to do when those values got violated. After three hours, the two opposing parties were drinking together at the bar. They still disagreed, but the deeper values they cared most about had been acknowledged and protected, which meant they could exhale.

Redirect their energy

In her book on global conflict, A Savage Order, scholar Rachel Kleinfeld describes how countries find a way out of endemic violence. The first step governments often take is to make bargains with warlords, giving conflict entrepreneurs political power in exchange for a little peace. The goal of these “dirty deals” is to buy time — while reformers reduce corruption and other systemic problems. It’s a gamble, but ignoring conflict entrepreneurs can be more dangerous.

In companies, this might mean channeling the energy of a conflict entrepreneur toward something productive that you both care about. Give them a choice, rather than a mandate. Often, professional coaching is a good option, according to Eddy, the mediator who works with high-conflict personalities. “Focus on the future,” he advises.

Megan Hunter has done dozens of trainings, coaching engagements, and mediations with high-conflict companies (and co-authored several books with Eddy). In one explosive case, which threatened to drive a large family-owned business into bankruptcy, Hunter asked the feuding family members to work together to create a mission statement, which they’d never done before. This effect was surprising, even to her. “It was the first time they had been in the same room without f-bombs being hurled and someone storming out,” Hunter said. “They were so darned proud of that mission statement.” It doesn’t always work, but redirection is worth trying, she says. “Get them making decisions — together — instead of yelling at each other.”

Build guardrails

The best defense is a culture of good conflict — where questions get asked, honest disagreement is encouraged, and everyone behaves with a baseline level of decency.

But good conflict doesn’t happen naturally. It requires rituals and boundaries, ways to lean into the tension, not avoid it (or get consumed by it). This means creating, alongside employees, rules of engagement that everyone can agree to. In his 25 years as CEO of Able Aerospace in Arizona, Lee Benson found that he and his colleagues could rehabilitate about two of every three conflict entrepreneurs by instilling a straightforward, common methodology for performance and acceptable behavior. “They can’t get away with it when everyone knows the rules of engagement,” he told me. “They want to be part of the community, so they typically change.”

Here are examples of good-conflict practices I’ve seen adopted in different organizations:

  1. If you have a problem, go to the person you have the problem with first (unless it is a case of illegal, abusive, or dangerous behavior of course). Do this in person or on the phone, never via any form of written communication.
  2. Bring a proposed solution with you.
  3. Ask a lot of questions, with genuine curiosity, in any disagreement.
  4. Reflect back what you hear and check to see if you got it right, even as you continue to disagree.
  5. Stop using Slack and other tools that can generate unhealthy conflict (or, if this is unthinkable for your work flow, come to a consensus about how you will use these tools with integrity).
  6. Find a trusted mediator who can facilitate harder conversations when needed.
  7. Reward and demonstrate good-conflict behavior, publicly and often. Tell true stories about this when onboarding new employees — especially stories about junior employees who asked tough questions of supervisors without vilifying them (or being vilified).
  8. Target problems, not people.
  9. Do not engage in backchannel gossip or anonymous attacks.
  10. Rack up at least three positive encounters with each other for each negative. Do this in-person whenever possible. It’s harder to dehumanize someone who has cooked you dinner — or lost to you in cornhole.

The goal is not no conflict; it’s good conflict. In the tech company described earlier, the conflict entrepreneur eventually left by choice. “It’s so painful in retrospect,” the manager told me. “I wish we would have dealt with them sooner.” The company is now actively working to create better conflict rituals. “We have to still have healthy conflict. It’s how w

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