Wendy Mitchell RIP. Early onset dementia but what a resilient person for almost 10 years since diagnosis. She wrote 3 books, attended many seminars, wrote blogs, shared pictures and always answered tweets. I miss my virtual friend. She believed in assisted dying. Search post on canisgallicus.com. This is a piece to support her decision relating to Dignity in Dying as it is in Ireland and the doctors who support it. Also The Guardian makes a beautiful tribute to Wendy see below

Irish Doctors supporting MAiD

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Irish Doctors supporting Medical Assistance in Dying are a group of medical doctors who support choices for people at the end of their lives.

We have a strong belief in individual patient autonomy,

We believe that a person approaching the end of their life, should be provided with accessible, high-quality and evidence-based care to minimise suffering and support their wishes.

Every citizen should be able to access their choice of medical care, including palliative care and Medical Assistance in Dying (MAiD).

Patient’s individual choices should be discussed, encouraged and promoted. Any genuine choice by a patient, including MAiD, should be respected and supported.

We will advocate for the introduction of MAiD in Ireland, through public advocacy and workshops with doctors in Ireland. We want to deliver safe, regulated and high-quality care to our patients, including Assisted Dying. We are commited to developing the educational and professional standards to make this happen.

Email: IDsMAiD2021@gmail.com
Twitter: @IDsMAiD1


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There could not be a better photograph of nature. Every day, those of us who received Wendy’s blog, had the privilege of her photos of her early daily walk with nature.

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Wendy Mitchell wrote two bestsellers, a memoir and a guide to dementia.

Assisted dying

Assisted dying advocate and author Wendy Mitchell dies aged 68

Mitchell, who had dementia, announces her death in letter published posthumously on her blog

Kevin Rawlinson and agency Fri 23 Feb 2024 11.35 CETShare

The assisted dying advocate and bestselling author Wendy Mitchell, who spent years documenting her dementia, has died, her family has said.

Mitchell, 68, discussed her death in a letter published posthumously on her blog on Thursday.

“If you’re reading this, it means this has probably been posted by my daughters as I’ve sadly died,” she wrote. In the letter shared on her site Which Me Am I Today? Mitchell said she died after deciding to stop eating and drinking, and called for assisted dying to be legalised in the UK.

“In the end, I died simply by deciding not to eat or drink any more. The last cuppa tea … my final hug in a mug, the hardest thing to let go of, much harder than the food I never craved … Dementia is a cruel disease that plays tricks on your very existence.

“I’ve always been a glass-half-full person, trying to turn the negatives of life around and creating positives, because that’s how I cope.”

The mother of two, from Yorkshire, was diagnosed with early onset dementia aged 58 in 2014. She was an ambassador at the Alzheimer’s Society and wrote two Sunday Times bestsellers, her 2018 memoir titled Somebody I Used to Know, and a guide to the disease called What I Wish People Knew About Dementia published in 2022.

The former NHS worker said: “Sorry to break the news to you this way, but if I hadn’t, my inbox would eventually have been full of emails asking if I’m OK, which would have been hard for my daughters to answer.”

Her final book One Last Thing: How to Live With the End in Mind covers assisted dying.

Wendy Mitchell shot for the OM

In her posthumous blogpost, Mitchell argued people should be able to chose between euthanasia and palliative care, and added that she had wanted to go to Dignitas in Switzerland, a non-profit clinic that provides “physician-assisted suicide”.

She said: “It’s amazing how such little value is placed on the act of dying. If assisted dying was available in this country, I would have chosen it in a heartbeat, but it isn’t.

“I didn’t want dementia to take me into the later stages; that stage where I’m reliant on others for my daily needs; others deciding for me when I shower or maybe insisting I had a bath, which I hate; or when and what I eat and drink. I was hoping to go [to Dignitas] at the beginning of the year.”

Mitchell’s daughters, Sarah and Gemma, announced her death on social media, telling followers she had “died peacefully”.

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Life event that changes all: Horse riding accident in Zimbabwe in 1993, a fractured skull et al including bipolar anxiety, chronic fatigue …. co-morbidities (Nietzche 'He who has the reason why can deal with any how' details my health history from 1993 to date). 17th 2017 August operation for breast cancer (no indications just an appointment came from BreastCheck through the Post). Trinity College Dublin Business Economics and Social Studies (but no degree) 1997-2003; UCD 1997/1998 night classes) essays, projects, writings. Trinity Horizon Programme 1997/98 (Centre for Women Studies Trinity College Dublin/St. Patrick's Foundation (Professor McKeon) EU Horizon funded: research study of 15 women (I was one of this group and it became the cornerstone of my journey to now 2017) over 9 mth period diagnosed with depression and their reintegration into society, with special emphasis on work, arts, further education; Notes from time at Trinity Horizon Project 1997/98; Articles written for Irishhealth.com 2003/2004; St Patricks Foundation monthly lecture notes for a specific period in time; Selection of Poetry including poems written by people I know; Quotations 1998-2017; other writings mainly with theme of social justice under the heading Citizen Journalism Ireland. Letters written to friends about life in Zimbabwe; Family history including Michael Comyn KC, my grandfather, my grandmother's family, the O'Donnellan ffrench Blake-Forsters; Moral wrong: An acrimonious divorce but the real injustice was the Catholic Church granting an annulment – you can read it and make your own judgment, I have mine. Topics I have written about include annual Brain Awareness week, Mashonaland Irish Associataion in Zimbabwe, Suicide (a life sentence to those left behind); Nostalgia: Tara Hill, Co. Meath.
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